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So here I am, blogging again and if you read my last post, Life of a Sex Blogger, then you’ll know what the topic of this post is likely to be. It is week 3 nearly, of my new sexual journey and to be real with you it is something else, a learning curve.

What have I learnt so far:

Fuck Buddy / Swingers Etiquette

Apparently in the world of swinging, hooking up, linking or whatever you want to call it, there are those who make arrangements by text, BBM or email only. I have no issue with this for a quick fuck, a one time only event, but if you’re really serious about playing and want a repeat performance…I want to at least hear your voice once or sit and meet for a drink before we get naked.

Why am I being so fussy? Simply because there are a lot of timewasters out there, who promise you that they can dick you down and what happens, they turn out to be married, have very small cocks or look nothing like their profile pic. Am I ranting? Perhaps ever so slightly.

My theory is if I’m good enough to fuck, I’m good enough to call. So have I fucked anyone from the sites yet? No, and I won’t be blogging about it, if and when I do I still like my privacy. But if my tweets become more chirpier or my stories are more erotic, take that as a sign that I got me some good sex.

Swingers
What I can say is on a very positive note is that so far I have met some very, very, nice people, nice in the sense that you can have a proper conversation, both the men and women. And for the brilliant person that gave me the heads up on the excellent site that I have my profile on, I salute you a thousand times.

I went into this thinking that all I wanted was to just scratch my itch, it has been a while to say the least, since I had a dick up close and personal. However what has happened is that I’m finding likeminded people, people that totally get my level of freak and kink.

Hard Cocks

If you could see the number of big black cock pics in my inbox and on my BBM right now, you’d think I was about to start a porn site. I’m talking land of the friggin big cocks here, what are these guys eating!

Had a few surprises, some Italian guys and Middle Eastern men sent me their pics and I almost spat out my coffee, they were HUGE!!

Big enough for me to think, erm maybe, just maybe I might try the interracial thing, just once, maybe twice, well I’m curious. For me black men have given me everything I want sexually, legs bent over my head, pounded me until I could not even speak, given me at least 40 orgasms, busted a nut, stayed hard and came back for round two and three in other words they owned the pussy.

Can a non-black guy do this for me?

Juicy Pussy
What can I say about bi women, I adore them, I really adore them. I’ve found myself getting more excited about playing with the women than the men, I know I said that in my previous post but it is so true. On the sites, I’m seeing this confidence amongst the women, even a few groups of bi black women who meet up on a regular basis I love the way in which the women are connecting.

There is a real positive attitude towards expressing their sexuality. Above all I have a weakness for bi black women who are curvy, plus size chicks do it for me.

Couples
Wow, where do I start, I got approached by a few couples and I was shocked by some of their requests, they practically wanted me to meet and fuck straight away, what infuriated me was that there was no pic of the man in some of the profiles. Some of the men said that they only wanted to watch, another mentioned wanting to film me fucking his wife. I was like, are you fucking serious?

I can’t blame them though, my profile has caused quite a stir apparently. It has gotten to the point where I have had to put a note on my profile saying that I’m not looking for new meets. Is it the thought of a black bi chick strap on fucking another black woman and sucking a black man’s cock that got them all excited?

Now the husbands were something else, emailing me on the quiet and asking if I could fuck them too!!

So needless to say that I have not met up with any couples yet. Although a few that have a more relaxed way of meeting have chatted with me and when I’m feeling brave, I’ll make the leap, I find the more experienced couples easier to chat with.

Married Men
I’m going there again, they are some the nastiest fuckers I have ever chatted too, and I mean nasty. Swear down, I needed a strong glass of Brandy after chatting to them, I’m not even going to tell you the filth, it’s on another level, got my pussy extremely wet though.

Lastly, there’s the whole cougar and cub thing, I seem to be attracting some very nice younger men, a few almost half my age, and I’m like “I’m old enough to be your mum” and they’re like “But just give me a chance, I’ll eat your pussy, rim your arse, whatever you want”.

Yet there are the mature swingers, which is the category in which I belong, and they well they are just out there to have fun and a good time and I like that, I like that a lot. These are interesting times for me, no longer “wifey” but something tells me that this new stage in my life could prove to be the most amazing ride ever.

Kinky Blessings

Pashun
xx

I got all hot last night and I spent most of my time rubbing my clit and thinking about having my pussy eaten, I’m full of lust, and I’m not sure why, but I’m being coy here. I suppose a good hard fuck would release the sexual frustration, that I’m experiencing. When I’m feeling horny, I want premium cock, not just your regular run of the mill cock, not your ordinary cock. I mean I want the sort of fuck that leaves me speechless, legs shaking, hair fucked up, with pussy juice covering my thighs because I squirted so much (and in my opinion, there are only a few men that are capable of giving me that).

Not one to forget the ladies, a woman could soooo make it happen. I seem to be attracting some sexy bi women at the moment, call me hungry but I want it all threesomes, foursomes, moresomes,of course some 1 on 1 sex. But this newly single status has me itching to be sexually creative. I’ve taken the rather brave step of joining a few sites in my search of kinky people.

So far the results have been really interesting, not met up with anyone yet, I think I will probably only meet up with women for the time being. I’m craving a woman’s touch. The men all seem very nice, but I’m not ready to have sex with a guy I’m not sure about. Although in my past, I’ve had casual encounters, yet for me, knowing a person a bit beforehand helps, at least being certain about their sexual preferences.

The Strap On

In my toybox is a massive strap on and in the last two weeks I have had several offers from men who want to be fucked up the bum. As much as I want to fuck them, fucking a woman is high on my list. Every year, I have my anuual toybox clearout, funny enough nothing to throw away this time, but I want some Ben-wa balls, a double ender, strap on knickers and restraints.

The Sites
What an interesting world we live in, I’m on two particular sites at the moment, not naming names but whoa!! The responses were something crazy like 138 emails in my inbox on the first day and I’ve not even got any photos up. So why the sites? Why not? I’m so tired of hiding my kink, it is so much easier this way. I might even try a few parties if I can go with an equally freaky person.

BBC
When it cums to big black cocks, I think I have a weakness, I’m a bit cock obsessed at the moment, not had any for…well, way too long and I’m beginning to get cranky!! So whenever I finally get some, it’s on, all that pent up sexual tension and inner freak can be released.

Swinging
What I have found on the sites is that there are people who expect you to meet them straight away, just Fuck N Go, erm while this might sound like fun, for me it’s not. Like who are you? A one-liner on your profile means nothing to me.

Then there are these guys who claim they are freaky and won’t even eat pussy, are you serious?

BDSM and Fetish
I love when doms and dommes try to tell me how they want to fuck me, I’m only submissive for the right person, and even then I can switch ever so quickly, tie me up really? Not going to happen, more like I’ll tie you up.

Asian Guys
So far, what a bunch of kinky men, the stuff they are asking me for. Anal sex, strap on sex, the most recent chat was with a guy who wanted me to order him to suck a massive black cock while his mates watch.

White Guys
Why is it that some white guys have found it necessary to send me pics of their cocks saying “Big enough for you?”, a cock pic is a cock pic. The amount of requests I’ve had from them telling me how they want to worship my black skin is well funny. I’m not a fetish, I’m me.

But that said, I would fuck a white guy up, serious, end of.

Married Men

The married men are straight up freaks. Not been with any yet from the site. If a married man is stepping out, the marriage is over as far I am concerned. Call me a bitch, call me what you like…but these men have their fucking cocks out, pics of them nyaming pussy and the lot. Now if, and that’s a big if, if you are married and swinging as a couple that’s another thing all together.

A married man who screws around is not worth keeping, just saying.

Is he good for a fuck, maybe? Fuck him, leave him, move on, seeing all these profiles of married men has made me seriously question marriage, why bother if you are fucking on the side?

The Convo:

Married Man: Have you got any pussy pics?

Me: Erm, you are married, you see pussy every night

Married Man: Want to see yours, my cock is all hard and ting

Me: Why aren’t you fucking your wife or swinging with her?

Married Man: She’s not freaky like that

Me: Really. I’m not here to judge, but if we fuck, I want no mess, right, none. Never get caught up, NEVER profess to leave your wife for me, or any of that shit. Not got time for that.

Married Man: You’re a bitch, a freaky horny bitch, my cock is hard, suck it for me please, hang on chat later.

Me: Not a bitch, just honest.

Couples
Not met with any couples yet, the offers are plenty, they look nice, they seem nice. But,I find myself wanting to play with the woman more than the men. The men mostly want to watch me with their wife / girlfriend anyway. When I see how much fun these couples have I’m slightly envious, then I think perhaps I’m getting this all wrong, perhaps what I really want is a bi woman playmate and a male partner so that I can play as a couple, much safer I think.

So that’s it, a wrap up of what’s new in my quest for sexual adventures and pleasure, gives me something to blog about and time away from writing erotica.

Kinky Blessings

Pashun

Having explored my freaky side a few times, I have often asked the question: Where Are All The UK Black Swingers. The idea for this post originally came to me, when a reader of Greg & Sheryl’s Interracial Blog, enquired about black male swingers from the UK. And they suggested that the reader ask me.

Truth is we are everywhere, but I really can’t claim to be the first person who has written about swinging in the black community. I recall reading an article in The Voice Newspaper years ago, that was about black swingers,the thing is even with this knowledge I still found it hard (no pun intended) to find other like-minded people. Having tried and failed to organise groups of kinksters, the problem became clear. Maybe I wasn’t looking in the right places.

Then I slowly began to find other people out there, who also enjoyed the freakier side of life, hence me relaunching my BBM group The Freaky Zone. At the moment it’s looking like a cockfest, even numbers would be nice. Why? Why not, let’s face it going up to a bar full of people and announcing, “I’m black, kinky and proud” is not easy. For me I get to say this via my blog. But for those of us, who want to be more anonymous, a group on BBM is the best way.

Now, I’m not about to spill the beans about my encounters, that’s private,(cough, cough, although regular readers have worked out that Miz Fat Pum Pum and Mistress Black are my alter egos). But what I can say is that I have met some amazing people so far. Think of this as an opportunity to meet others, now my role is purely that of an organiser, I’m bringing you kinky folk together, the more, the merrier, chat first and parties later, for those who want to. This is sounding like a social club.

Our African – American counterparts, have got swinging sites and clubs galore. Although I am aware of specialist clubs in the UK, not everyone wants to go to them. My way of meeting people was usually by joining sites, but after you’ve read one ad, you’ve read them all.

There’s this perception that black folk, don’t get down like that, I’m here to tell you that it’s a myth. Above all if you’re ultra kinky like myself, having to hide your kinky side is not easy. Repression is never a good thing. I won’t leave anyone out, irrespective of sexuality.

So if you are black, open-minded, own a Blackberry, have a sense of humour and are up for X-rated chat and more on BBM, inbox me on Facebook, Twitter or via my email.

How many people will respond to this…the freaks come out at night!! Surely I’m not the only bisexual, trysexual black woman in the UK???

Wish me luck

Kinky Blessings

Pashun
xxx

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