I’m all sticky and wet, you caused that. For the last seven hours all I’ve been thinking about is your tongue fucking my pussy and my hands gripping your cock.
My pussy aches for you, literally cries out for you to fuck it, and to fuck it hard. I need to feel you inside of me, your thick hard cock filling me up, the air escaping and my pussy making that noise because it is so fucking wet…
Will you raise my legs, put them on your shoulders and sink your cock in and watch me scream?
Are you going to pinch my nipples and rub my clit?
I want you in my arse, my tits pressed against the floor, your fingers lubing me up and then you fucking me, until I tell you to stop.
You think that there’s another side of me, well here it is, raw and hardcore. Shall I wear the mini-skirt so that you can lift it up and take a peek at my shaven pussy…I’m typing this with one hand and the other is playing with my clit.
Can you see that I’m full of lust for you, that the thought of sucking on your balls sends me into a frenzy, I want you to cock feed me and when it’s over, I’ll savour every last drop of your milk.
Now, if I’m putting a Jodeci song at the beginning of a sermon, then you know that I’m about to preach about sex.
Pause…I’m going to be real quick, consider this for 5 minutes.
Are you talking to your lover, your wife, your husband, your link. The person you are doing the do with. Communication is a big thing on my list of must-haves in a relationship, the ability to say “This is what I like, this is what I need” not only helps you, it also helps your lover to learn how to please you.
Never assume that your partner should know what you like, yes if they’re a master or mistress of seduction, they will have their own bag of tricks. However they might not know about that sensitive spot you have on your ankle or that you have always wanted to fuck them in public. Yeah it’s like that…
Conversation in any relationship is essential, are you laughing together? Are you knowledgeable about what really turns your lover on. So many of us are having sex without speaking about it, just jump inna bed without actually saying what we want. Now I can testify that was something I used to put up with, in my former sex life. Now I’m chatting, blogging, tweeting, and just being open about what I want sexuallly and what I can give sexually.
Make time to sit with your lover, playmate or partner and talk, say what you like about having sex, forgive me if you are already doing this, but you know a little refresher course never hurt anybody!! Communication and sex go together in my opinion, language during sex can make it go from good to fucktastic in a few seconds.
I have a thing about pleasing my partner, I like to ensure that they are sexually satisfied, so I ask a lot of questions. I find out where their sensitive spots are, I ask about kinks and fetishes, whether they like porn. Just be open, the most important thing is be sexually safe, yeah I’m going there, check their sexual history too.
I know that BBM, What’s App and all those other message type things are quick and easy forms of communication, but there is something up, close and personal about having a face to face conversation with your lover. Hearing their voice, watching their lips, having some conversation after and during sex.
Communication can also be foreplay, think about it, when your lover tells you how sexy you look, how beautiful you are, when they tell you how they want to lick your nipples, eat your pussy, suck your cock…those oral expressions can make a woman wet or a man go hard.
Be creative, now with that said, I’m about to make a phone call…
Well we’re back Mistress Black and I, our sexploration break was a very interesting one, and here’s me thinking that we were going to be away for weeks, possibly a month. But the truth is my alter ego and I had a much-needed rest, lappy, my laptop was going crazy, the book was almost finished and the formatting went mad and half of the story has vanished!!
Am I pissed, mmmm, ever so slightly, but I can say this, perhaps it was not my best work. So I’m writing at a slower pace and the book Sometimes You Just Have to Fuck A Man, should be ready in time for Christmas. Why the change? I had to stop for a bit, there is so much good stuff going on outside of my blogging and writing persona, that I wanted to enjoy it.
I feel very special at the moment, intimacy is a beautiful thing, I kind of think that you know about this blog, but I could be wrong, but when I said I love you, I meant every word. Trust is a huge thing for me, right now I’m scared, but you know life is a risk, right, so I’m not holding back anymore. You are a wonderful black man, your presence, your touch…I have to tell you all of this face to face.
Above all, other projects that are majorly important have become a priority, I consider them to be life affirming. For the first time ever in a long time, I feel calm and balanced. The healing part, the getting healthy and staying healthy part has become a permanent fixture.
Now this would not be a Black, Kinky and Proud blog post if I failed to mention sex, I have some new blog posts that I’m working on about black swingers, sex toys and straps on. The Mistress Black tumblr blog is still up and running, and I will be setting up a tumblr for Black, Kinky and Proud.
The long overdue forum and chatroom are work in progress and as usual book samples will be posted here on the blog…are you following me on Twitter? Try it, you might like it. Memberships, I have given the memberships thing the heave-ho, if you want to support the blog further, why not consider purchasing one of the books, but only if you really want to:)
Marketing and promotion are so not me, this is why I pulled the brakes a bit, I was tweeting my arse off about writing, writing, and the books, the books and I was like whoa, lighten up, get back to what you enjoy the most…blogging, having fun and chilling.
Back on Sunday with An Alternative Sunday post, not sure what the topic is, but I’ll think of something.
For all my BBW’s, bi gurls, lesbians, strap on lovers, sexy BHM, kinky men, gorgeous women, poets, writers, bloggers, FB peeps and twitter peeps, thank you for reading my blog, reading my tweets and buying my book – most of all, thanks for your support.
