Alternative Sunday Service: The Strap On Guide – How To Really Fuck a Man

Good Morning, this is my first Alternative Sunday Service of the year.

So I’m going straight in there with a guide to Strap On sex…I was toying with the idea of calling this “How to Really Fuck a Man”, but I wasn’t sure so it is there as a subtitle.

Strapping, pegging, Bend over Boyfriend, the act of using a dildo with a man, has several names, while I’m well aware that women strap women, this guide is solely for the strapping of men.

The whole idea of a man wanting to be fucked by a woman is a mystery for some.

If you are not comfortable do not do it, I will break it down further for you, there are men who get off on being fucked anally by women. You may question their sexuality, but his sexual preferences are totally irrelevant as long you are both open about it and practice safe sex.

Now before you run off, screaming blasphemy and start quoting various parts of scripture at me, anal sex has been going on for years!!

Lube

You are going to need plenty of it.

Whatever you do forget about Anal-eze or anything that claims to numb the arse, it is extremely dangerous. Your lover, man, submissive, hubby or whatever will not be able to tell you whether you are going too deep or not.

Go for a large bottle with a pump, make sure the lube can be used with condoms.

Gloves

Yes, I’m talking about those medical looking type of gloves that you can get in your local chemist or shop.

Why?

Hygiene, and it looks rather kinky too.

Apply the lube to the gloves and play with his arse a bit, warm him up, use two fingers, maybe more…hang on we’re entering the fisting zone here, but if he can take it why not?

The Strap On

Now, as much you might want to ram him with the biggest cock you can find, tempting right for him to know what it actually feels like when he fucks you?? I suggest starting off small and working your way up to a larger, thicker wider cock. Not unless he really is gagging and begs you for it.

Size does matter to some!!

There are loads of sex stores online and on the High Street that sell strap ons, they need not be expensive.

Harness, Dildo, Double-Enders

Using a harness with a strap on has it’s advantages, you can slip the strap on cock in, adjust it so that it points straight. Then tighten the belt so that there is a secure fit on your hips.

There are strap on cocks that can be worn with a thigh fitting or using your mouth, variety is the spice of life and all that.

Insertables or what I prefer to call them the Double Enders

These are great as you get to have some pleasure yourself, with a bit that goes into your pussy and the other for screwing him silly.

Lastly, there are the brilliant strap on panties, a pair of panties with a thick dildo attached.

Legs

I cannot stress this enough, fucking a man with a strap on is a workout, be prepared to feel some serious pressure on your legs especially the thigh area.

Smooth Entry

After lubing him, playing with his balls, giving them a lick here and there, back up spread his legs and with a slow but firm thrust enter that arse. Wait for the shock to hit him if he is a newbie that is, then build up to a pace that suits you.

Or have him sit on the cock and ride you, much easier, less hard work for you and you can always thrust from below, fuck him back.

Positions

They are soooo many, don’t be afraid to rough him up a bit, throw his legs up, give him the dick against a wall. Position him facing you, away from you, put him face down arse up, whatever you feel like and of course ask him what he wants.

Say Something!!!

A recap, you’ve lubed him, fingered him, maybe fisted him and given him a quick wank…but have you actually said anything to him?

This is where the raunchy, raw stuff comes in.

Now my guess is that if a man is up for you fucking him in the arse he is not expecting, pretty please language, get nasty.

Tell him what you are going to do to him:

You see that tight arse of yours, I’m gonna fuck you so hard

Give him orders:

Wank your cock when I’m fucking you

Get on your knees and suck my cock (This might not work with all men, some are only into being fucked, but for those that want to suck, let them)

Ask him questions:

You like the way I’m fucking you?

Is it hard enough for you?

And if you are feeling bold ask him:

Whose cock is this? (Fireworks guaranteed!!!)

Submission

Now, if you enter the roleplay BDSM zone, establish your rules, safe words way before you start playing. I mean have a word ready to use if your playmate wants out of the session, although if he is getting it good he won’t – smiling.

Clothing and Props

Look the part, both of you for that matter.

Wear those Fuck Me Boots, adorn yourself with leather, lace or latex, accentuate your cleavage with a bustier.

Get him to Lick Your Whip, sit on the chair for being naughty, tie him up, restrain him…

Fun and Pleasure

Enjoy the experience, strap on sex might be the one thing you save for your weekends of lust, kink and fetish it could be a regular event, lucky you!! Whatever it is make it fun and pleasureable, talk about it and find out what you want from this experience.

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A man who likes to be strapped by a woman is no less of a man, he is not to be ridiculed for his sexuality or to be called names.

In fact a man who is knowledgeable of the orgasmic highs that can be obtained from the end of the strap on is a man to be applauded.

Strap on loving men, I salute you.

Kinky Blessings

Pashun “Lick My Whip” Nate