So peeps, I am supposed to be taking a break from my blog. I am kind of, I’m just not writing any new stories at the moment.
Blogging about sex on a regular basis can become tiresome. I often run out of ideas. How many times can you blog, cock, pussy, arse, vibe, anal, oral? Well apparently 69 times, I have written 69 blog posts.
I was feeling overwhelmed with certain aspects of life in Vanilla Land and seemed to have lost my way in terms of my blog hence my reason for taking a break – clarity was needed.
In a light bulb moment, it became clear, I started this blog to chart my sexual awakening, in the mix I had forgotten all about that.
Reclaiming my sexuality has been an education.
The lessons are not over, I am forever learning.
But, there has to be a butt somewhere, I am not completely sold on BDSM anymore, I cannot fully embrace all of it, I was always on the edge and experimenting.
Fetish and kink for me are my love of leather, lace, satin, chocolate sauce, lingerie, erotica, big cocks, BBW, I suppose the sensual side.
My blog has been on WordPress for approximately a month, I had been previously writing on Nasty Black Chick and a hosted version of Black Fetish Queen. I incorporated the two, imported the posts here (hence the archives for January and February) and two blogs became one.
The stats are now over 4000, I never imagined that Black, Kinky and Proud would get so many views.
Initially all I wanted was to have a voice and to really find out what I liked sexually.
No more labels, I am what I am. I like what I like.
I have had a lot of help along the way and I am truly grateful for that.
Yes, I am Spring cleaning, I gathered up all of my old sex toys and safely got rid of them and ordered some new ones – about time.
The strap on is gone, been there, fucked that.
I reckon my fascination with strap ons was because I wanted to try it,to see what it was all about.
Next were two massive realistic vibes that had lost their buzz, I wore the poor buggers out, so they had to go as well.
For the first time in ages, I only have a few gadgets, my collection is more to my liking.
The blog name will remain the same, as I am still Black, Kinky and Proud, as for Black Fetish Queen, Nasty Black Chick and blackfetqueen, I am cool with those too, they are a part of me.
With that all said, I will be back soon
Have fun this weekend
Love Pashun
xxx
