Can you remember the first orgasm that you had? I can remember mine clearly, it was with a man that I was deeply in love with.
We were in bed he had kissed me all over and rubbed oil on my back and thighs. He licked my nipples slowly and then pulled them, while rubbing my clit.
I recall my breath becoming short, like I was gasping for air and I felt a wave of heat rise through my body and I screamed out. My lover continued to touch, taste and caress until I came again.
He stopped to look at me and said that I was glowing, he too looked radiant as if there was this aura surrounding him.
I returned his soft kisses and mirrored all that he had done to me. When my lips found his cock, he leaned back and I placed it in my mouth. I was so nervous and was not sure if I was doing this the right way. His moans let me know that he was happy, I licked and gently nibbled, playing with his balls at the same time.
When he came, I swallowed without hesitation.
I miss that kind of connection, although I embrace my kink and love of fetish, I truly desire a deep heartfelt form of sexual expression. After rereading some of my previous posts, I am sure that I come across as being very explicit, that is just how I am.
Yet there are times when I don’t want to be pounded really hard, I want to make love, does that make me soft?!! No not necessarily, for me kink and sensuality coexist.
I like foreplay, I enjoy being teased and played with. I have had quickie sex before and it does have a purpose, yet when I really think about the intense orgasms that I have experienced they have always been with partners who had a sensual touch.
So when I use my sex toys with a partner they are to enhance our play, to increase pleasure.
Orgasms are not essential for me, but it is so good when I do have one or more especially with someone who has the same sexual preferences.
Becoming orgasmic is every woman’s right, I learnt how to make myself come as soon as I got past the whole stigma of masturbation.
Now that I am in tune with my body, it is so much better, I can tell a lover what I want and need.
